Think of the greatest athletes out there, Christiano Ronaldo, Lebron James, Tiger Woods, LT, and CC Sabathia. Now think of this, no matter how hard to try you can't be them. I take that back, you should never say the word can't. You will never be them. No matter how hard you try to be them, wear the clothes they wear, eat the food they eat, imitate them to the highest degree, yet you can never be them. This goes the same for entertainers, programmers, entrepreneurs, politicians, and the like... You will never be them. This may come off a bit harsh to some, but think about it... There will never be another Michael Jordan, Wayne Gretzky, Bill Gates, Donald Trump. There will never be a next one of them either. This also applies to the iPhone and any other revolutionary electronic out there on the market. There can only be one.
I was listening to T.I.'s Paper Trail CD, and many times he says that if you want to judge him you have to walk in his shoes. In essence to understand why he does what he does you have to be him. I believe this applies the same to the greats of everything. To fully understand one of them you have to be them, and that is not possible. We can only be ourselves. Even though we will never be them, we still can be great. We still can be the greatest to do whatever it is we do, or create the greatest gadget of all time. Greatness comes from within. Not from following in the footsteps of someone else. We can follow whoever we want, but if its not inside of you greatness will not emerge.
I am a big advocate of being an individual, of being yourself. "You can not be me, and that's what makes me better than you" is my mantra. This may sound a big self centered but its the honest truth. I have a friend who writes for a video game blog. No matter what I do, I will never be a better gamer than he. My gamer rating will never be higher than his. His passion for gaming far outshines mine. My best friend is constantly thinking about the future. He is always reading, thinking, networking, and working towards his future goals and business ideas. I envy him for this. So I tried to read the same books he does, constantly take notes like he does, and do what he does. I discovered that I can only read so many self-help books. I don't like thinking all the time, sometimes I feel like vegging out and being a waste of space. One more of my friends is very creative. He draws, writes poetry, and is very good at organizing himself, and his things. I constantly am stealing tips from him on how to be more creative with my life. Yet no matter how hard I try I can never match his creativity.
No matter how hard I try to imitate my friends I learn that I can only match them to a certain point. If you think its hard to match your friends, how do you think you can match someone who gets paid to perform at a world class level constantly? What I've learned though is to be able to take something from one of my friends and put my own spin on it. My gaming friend blogs about games, I blog about life. I try to read as much as my entrepreneur friend, but I read not only self-help and business books, but philosophy, mystery, and fiction. My creative friend draws, I take pictures, he organizes, and I minimize and simplify.
I have learned to take traits that I like in my friends and apply them in my own life. I have a better chance of growing this way and becoming my own person rather than to try and imitate their lives. The problem I have discovered is as much as I try to live their life, its their life. It is not my life to live. The experiences that they have, I do not. They journey they have traveled, I have not. I can only follow what I see from them, and that is only a small portion of their life. This makes it hard for me to imitate everything they do see and are. I have learned to use them as a guide to becoming a better person.
I have learned to stop trying to be the "next great" someone else, and start being the "only great" me. Because in the end, there can only be one me, and that's what makes me better than you.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
I GOT A SNOWBOARD!!!
I finally got my own board to shred with. I'm so super excited about it. I've wanted one for a while now.
Ever since my freshman year in college when my friends took me to Mammoth Mountain for a week, and taught me how to snowboard. Ever since then I've been a fan. My friends in college always laughed at me during spring break because I went home while they went to warmer climates. Yes, California is a warmer climate, but I didn't go to the beach. I headed for the snow capped Sierra Nevadas. Yes 3 of the 4 spring breaks I had while I was in college I went snowboarding. I try to go every year since then, bringing more of my friends into the sport, and enhancing my skills. I was able to get my two roommates into it (one actually skis instead), and the other broke his arm snowboarding last year in NY. This past year I got to experience snowboarding on the East coast where I went to Wisp for a couple days with my boss and coworkers who all ski. Still I had the most fun being the only one boarding and I held it down. On that trip I almost bought a snowboard at the resort shop, but I told myself to hold out. That was the only time I went that year. I told myself this year I was going to go multiple times since I am pretty much permanent..
The Deal Breaker
Making my last rounds in the mall on the Saturday after Black Friday, I stopped by one of my favorite skate stores Zumiez to see what they had. Walking around the store, I made my way to their selection of snowboards. They had package deals for $299-$399, which I feel was a pretty good deal. So I inquired, and was lucky enough to meet the store manager, Big Joe. Big Joe reminded me of Big Z the character from Surf's Up. He was full of energy and ready to school me on the basics of purchasing a snowboard from their store. He took me through their selection of boards, bindings, and books, ephasising what I needed to look for in each and how their were important. Big Joe gave me the best customer service experience in the history of shopping. I told him I was coming back soon to get one. That week at work, one of my coworkers recommended we go snowboarding, and it was on like Donkey Kong. So the day before our trip I swung by Zumiez on my way home from work to make my selection.
I ended getting the Burton Blunt Wide. I was told the board was slightly advanced and would last me a while. The board has a bunch of features I don't really understand yet, but boy its it ride smooth. Its 159 cm long, so its about as tall as a few of my smaller friends. Paired with it I got the Burton Custom bindings. I wanted the green bindings so I could stand out a little, but since the board I wanted wasn't in my size, I was slucky enough to get a matching board. I got the Burton Poacher Boots to complete the deal. Its a sweet setup and I hope to slay many mountains with it. The Zumiez staff are some of the coolest, most down to earth people to ever sell me something. They helped me set up the board, make sure I got something that worked best for me, and we all had a good learning experience putting it together. Burton boards and bindings are no joke. Big ups to Jenn and Matt at Zumiez!
Right off the back the board feels 1000x better than the rentals I was used to. The boots and the bindings are snug and comfortable. I still have much breaking in of the boots to do, but the binding held me down quite nice. The board was very responsive, and even gave me a little extra pop when I went off a jump. I did mostly freeriding, trying to gain a good feel for the board. So far I love it.
I plan on going back often, and even trying out some photography while up there. The best way to learn is by doing, and I think I see a way for me to grow in two areas at the same time. The more I think about it, the more I wonder if this was the correct purchase, or even if this was a good idea. I enjoy snowboarding, but sadly life contains more that just large mountains and fresh powder. Every day I am reminded of this. Every day I also think about how much more fun it would be to take a month off and snowboard non-stop all over the world. We all have responsibilities in life to take care of. We all have priorities to handle. The hard part is deciding which responsibilities/priorities are most important to us, and not what those around us would like us to pursue.
A Brief Moment of Clarity
Snowboarding is like art, poetry in motion, and natural beauty all rolled into one. When one is
going down the mountain it so easy to enter into a state of flow, focusing only on your turns and hearing nothing but the sound of the board sliding over the snow. Snowboarding is like skateboarding, where people create poetry in motion in nature. Its about freedom, expression, and style.
Snowboarding is about being yourself, and is a lot like life:
- We are all on a mountain together, but taking different paths to different places.
- Not only are we taking different paths how we traverse those paths is completely up to us.
- Also our goals for the paths are different, some want to just get down, others try not to fall, and some want to do it fast.
- The more difficult the obstacle, the better we feel when we take it down.
- Everyone is afraid to try new things(jumps, more difficult runs, new experiences) at first, but you can't grow until you've tried them
- Few mountains(challenges/skillsets) are similar, and all present different challenges than before. The more mountains you visit and conquer the better ride you become...
- Most importantly snowboarding, like life, is best when being experienced...
Snowboarding brings me a kind of freedom that I long for off the moutain. Not only did I invest in a snowboard, I invested in myself, and in the belief that I can and will conquer my fears and challenge myself to find that freedom I long for...
Thursday, December 4, 2008
My Zune has been gone for almost a month now. I've been using my mother's iTouch as my main source of mobile music for the time being, and I like it a lot. Its not my Zune though. Originally this should have been a fairly quick process; call Zune support, they send you a box, you send them your Zune, they magically repair it, they send it back, and everyone is happy. Microsoft makes this a fairly plain, simple, and fast process. If you do it the easy, unlike me, you might be impressed... Instead, I choose the long around-the-way method and gave it off to someone else to drop off for me because I had a trip to go on. That person didn't send it off for two weeks. Then when it was ready, I had to drive to the FedEx facility 20 minutes away because I was never home when they tried to deliever it 3 times this week, in the middle of the afternoon, because I seem to be home that time.
Its ok though, cause I have my Zune back. I am happy again... Or am I??
For starters, I am a little bothered, because I did not get my Zune back... I got a Zune back. The Zune that I shipped was brown the Zune that was shipped back is Black. Are there any issues/defects with this Zune? Not to my knowledge. It seems actually to be a brand new Zune running the original 1.0 software.
So you got a black Zune instead of a brown one, whats the big deal? The big deal is that I paid for a brown one. One of the main reasons I purchased that device was for its brown color. I have theory that colors give things more character and personality. They allow you to connect to your device more because it represents a part of you. This is why I like getting things with bright colors, or with colors I know that are not going to be top sellers. It stands out. In a sea of green I want to be that orange flower. I want to be able to tell my mp3 player apart from all the others with a quick glance. I know I can add accessories and other things to help differentiate it, but the color of the device is part of the device. Why couldn't the Zune support say to me "hey, in the case your zune needs to be replace and we are out of stock of your current model, what is an alternate color you would like?" This would have helped prepare me at least for the instance that I did not get my original device back.
To most people the color of the device does not matter. What matters most is the device works. I like brown, I bought a brown Zune, and I was happy with my brown Zune. Is it too much to ask for an option of alternate colors in the case your device must be replace? "I don't care" could be an option and its only one more line on the form...
You know the best part about getting my a Zune back... It still doesn't work. It probably was the cable the whole time, or worse my Zune days might be over, and it might be time to upgrade to an iTouch???